In our society today we have heard alot about broken marriages and some serious relationships that usually don't work out after along term dating. Now before we go into the main discussion we need discuss something very important. Firstly we need to know what marriage or dating relationships is all about.
What is Marriage?:
marriage is a union between two different persons coming together from
different families. Or the union between the two opposite sex as husband
and wife. Though we now have same sex marriages but that's not what we
are going to discuss here.
Now knowing the meaning of
marriage which is also same as relationship in one way or the other,
though relationship is all about dating which might eventually turn into
In any marriage or relationship they is what we called
initial spark of marriage, meaning the fresh stages of marriage where
the love is still fresh. We are going to talk about what kills this
spark in marriage and also how you can keep it fresh and enjoy a
romantic marriage and relationship forever. Now this are what we fail to
do in our relationship and keep it fresh as you desire , I will be
giving out some important point to help failed relationships to come
back to it's sparking or fresh stage.
Respect is one Of the major thing some people fail to do in there
various marriage or dating relationships, as a woman or man always value
each other and give yourselves the respect that is accorded to both
sides.no matter who is the bread winner of the family because everyone
has a duty to perform in one way or the other so value each and accord
yourselves maximum respect.
2). Always acknowledge his or her efforts.:
Be it the man or the woman, everyone has a responsibility,because as
long as marriage is concern no one is idle, even if you are a full time
house wife you have a job, because it is not easy to take care of your
spouse and house chores, and as the man his ass out day and night the
office, as woman need to acknowledge his efforts and encourage him even
if it's little he has. Because if you fail to do that then your
relationship is bound to go on a rough edge. And also the man should
also appreciate the wife. He should understand when she is tired and the
woman should also understand when the man don't have any thing to
3.Always plan together :
As spouse what ever u
are going to do it should be brough to the notice of your partner,
don't be too secretive, as it's said that two head is better than one,
Make him or her part of your plans.
4.Accomodate each others flaws :
Yes everybody has his own flaws in one way or the other, because no
body is a master of all, so learn to tolerate each other. Always be
patient, don't be too quick to
Judge your partner, it is one of the
reasons we have broken homes and some serious relationships are also
broken, so always be accomodative and correct each other in good
5).Don't compare your partner with some one else :
It is a very bad attitude to compare your spouse with someone else.,
Just Because Mr A always take his wife to work and open the door for
her, you now compare your spouse with Mr A not knowing that mr A car has
a faulty door and can only be open from the outside . So you see that
not all you see, you will compare with your partner. And finally no
marriage or relationship is perfect you have to work to make it perfect.
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The reasons for breakup marriages and dating relationships and also how to keep it smooth.
Sunday, 29 April 2018